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"If I could be any part of you, I'd be your tears. To be conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheeks, and die on your lips."

This is exquisite.

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Dec 26Edited

When I hear someone proclaim "I love......", it usually brings about an inquiry in my mind, as to what and why that someone has announced what they just did.

Many people say they love someone else, and yet they are not fulfilling that admission through their actions. It seems as though that some folks today think that words are enough to fulfill and represent that thought, feeling, or admission, and they're "good", and have done their part.

I disagree.

I being the curmudgeon that I claim to be, fail on a daily basis to tell those around me, such as my wife of 37 years, that "I love them".

For me,

Its just not now, nor has it ever felt right, to simply say those 3 simple little words, to represent who I am, and my devotion, or intensity of thought or feeling, or desire for another, and be comfortable with what I have said. Actually, in saying it, I feel discomfort, because of what those 3 words really mean to me, which in my opinion, cannot be conveyed through speech.

Love to me is strictly declared through action, or sacrifice, and nothing more.

Why am I this way?

I am a product of my experience and pathway through life. I've had those in my own time here, who've declared they loved me, who ultimately proved otherwise.

In the same breath, I've been blessed to have interactions with those who've proven their love for me, and never said a word.

Talk is cheap, But, thats just me.

Beautiful little stories, Tritorch, showing what love really is, or could be. On this beautiful 24*f Thursday morning, I thank you

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